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The Twin Flame Paradox

How the pull to your Twin Flame is really a pull to your inner self.

Michele Lynch
6 min readJan 27, 2022
A heartbroken woman is sitting alone on the forest floor. She has love tattooed on her wrist and her head is buried in her hands. She is longing for her Twin Flame yet knows she has to turn inward to heal.
Photo by Sam Burriss on Unsplash

Love is simply the name for the desire and pursuit of the whole. ~Plato

There are many definitions of Twin Flames that range from the mystical realm to the soulmate realm. But there’s one thing that can’t be denied to those of us on this journey — it’s unlike anything we’ve ever experienced before. We’ll search high and low for answers to make sense of this crazy connection and heal the pain that this dynamic can create.

The Twin Flame Pull

We are drawn to and pulled towards our Twin Flame in ways beyond explanation. This pull can be stronger than anything we’ve encountered before. Simply put — we want to be with them. Although this may look differently for everyone — the intense pull is the same.

You may ask — what can I do? What should I do? What do I need to do? How do I get to union?

Here’s the thing — doing anything to try and get your Twin Flame where you want them to be in your life — just pushes them away. It repels them. Plain and simple. The paradox is that this pull to them is really a pull for you to go inward. What you are really being asked to do — is to be with yourself — to get to know yourself — to get to know all parts of yourself — to…

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Michele Lynch
Michele Lynch

Written by Michele Lynch

Writer, dreamer, creator, lover, dancer, choreographer, explorer, life-long seeker. *www.MicheleLynchHealing.com

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