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Twin Flames and Individuation

Michele Lynch
5 min readNov 11, 2023

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Individuation is to divest the self of false wrappings. ~Carl Jung

The Twin Flame journey is a journey of love. It’s a soul journey back to one’s true self.

We may start this journey and think it’s about love for another person —for our Twin Flame. But overtime we realize it’s about finding that love for ourselves.

Twin flames are about love. The highest love. Divine love.

Twin flames aren’t here to break up families or marriages.

Twin flames are here to honor each others’ individual journeys and to break out of the old paradigms of unhealthy relationships.

Breaking out of those old paradigms often starts with breaking out of an unhealthy relationship with your Twin Flame and hopefully ends with a healthy relationship with yourself.

The truth is — whether you’re a Twin Flame or not — no relationship can withstand unhealthy behaviors for too long without turning abusive in some way.

Unconditional love demands healthy relationship patterns and healthy relationship patterns require balanced and healthy people.

This is where individuation comes in. Individuation is the psychological and energetic alignment of the personality. “The achievement of self-actualization through a process of

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Michele Lynch
Michele Lynch

Written by Michele Lynch

Writer, dreamer, creator, lover, dancer, choreographer, explorer, life-long seeker. *www.MicheleLynchHealing.com

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